Bleeding After Postpartum Sex: Causes and Treatment

It is not uncommon to experience some amount of bleeding after childbirth, but if it starts during or after sex, it can be worrying. We’re sharing what postpartum bleeding is, why it happens, and when to seek medical advice. We’re also discussing preventive measures that can help reduce your risk of experiencing postpartum bleeding during sex and addressing how you can overcome fear and anxiety and feel empowered in your sexual experiences again.

The reality of sex after childbirth

Resuming intimacy after childbirth can be difficult emotionally and physically. Having open, loving conversations can help you and your partner address concerns and explore new ways of physical pleasure. This transition to a new life stage may involve a shift in sex life and sex drive, which often requires patience and compassion.

Read our tips on how to regain intimacy postpartum here.

When is it safe to resume sexual activities?

When you can have sex postpartum depends on individual physical recovery. Your doctor can offer guidance on when you’re physically able to have sex — usually around the six-week mark. However, understanding if you’re emotionally ready will require open communication between you and your partner!

Read more about When You Can Have Sex Postpartum.

Bleeding after postpartum sex: is it normal? Possible causes

In the weeks after childbirth, some bleeding is normal and is often referred to as lochia. It can be quite heavy at first and you’ll need super absorbent sanitary towels. The bleeding may last a few weeks but you should avoid using tampons until your 6-week check as it may increase the risk of getting an infection. Sex may cause more bleeding.

Your vagina may also be more sensitive and dry during postpartum, which can lead to tearing and injury during sex. In these cases, bleeding is common.

When to seek medical advice

If bleeding during postpartum sex doesn’t stop within four to six weeks, it worsens, or you are concerned about bleeding during sex, you should seek advice from your doctor.

The takeaway

Bleeding after postpartum sex can be a common concern for many women. It is important to understand that your body has gone through significant changes during and after childbirth, both physically and emotionally. While postpartum bleeding during sex can be caused by various factors and is often normal, it is crucial to recognize when it might indicate a more serious underlying issue and seek medical advice accordingly.

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